Trying to help never works. I'm shutting up and just watching. Less emotional involvement. *pets the dragon's snout* and you thought WE were mismatched?
i hope this is not about us. we have loved your input and it has helped spark new conversations. Bj even wrote me a love letter last night. the first one he has written since we had ryder. you have met us at the tail end of many long fights and resentments but we are finding each other again. BJ is thawing out and you telling him that it is apparent that he has withdrawn really struck him. he doesn't like appearing that way to others as he knows that is not who he is. so pet the dragon but please don't shut up.
Sorry - I get frustrated easily. Mostly cause I fear I'm being ignored all the time, Grim says. And I never actually shut up - I can't help being a busybody :)
I'm glad to hear that. I think of you two as friends and want to help as much as I can even though I'm not real experienced - I've only been in relationships that worked :). But I can see that yours has the parts needed to work so ... I butt in. :D
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