I forgot to said I doesn't do tumblr

[lissalysikan]

Gots too much stress from reading it and the peoples being really aggressive. I understands they gots opinions that differs from mine - is how peoples works. Being offensive in words is not how it works. I has did it afore and apologized - these peoples does it then gloats that they maked a person sad. Doesn't want to be part of that culture. Doesn't knowed if will write much public any mores - is feeling really bad about peoples in general these days.
Anyways - is not saiding anything on tumblr or other general social media places, and probly not much here either. Has gotten to a new low in my opinion of peoples.

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I'm sorry that people suck.

[(Anonymous)]

This is Cyndi, aka butterflyinthewell from Tumblr. I came here to make sure you were okay because I hadn't seen you post in a long time and got worried that something happened to you.

People can be really nasty sometimes. I think a lot of people look for excuses to lash out and not consider the feelings of the other person they're lashing out at. It's a human thing to make mistakes, and it's an autistic thing to make more social goofs than others. That doesn't make you a bad person by any stretch. Sometimes I think people expect an impossible standard of perfection from everybody and get mad at each other when imperfections come up anyway.

Tumblr is a real stressful place sometimes, so do what you feel is best to stay calm and meltdown-free. I'm sorry you had to deal with rude, cranky, mean people who chose to attack instead of hear you out.

Good luck and stay well. I'm sending my love to you and Baby and the Guardian and everyone in your family.

Re: I'm sorry that people suck.

[lissalysikan]

Thank you.

Was really hard to stop tumblr, but was hasing too many meltdowns and feeled peoples wasn't supportive - with exceptions like you :). Feeled like was fighting a war and I is not equipped for that.
Is back to writing my stories of magic and dragons and making arts and leaving the war to peoples what is better at dealing with the stress.
Might beed back in some times, but not soon.

Re: I'm sorry that people suck.

[(Anonymous)]

I think people take offense because they're trying to stick meaning into what you say that isn't there. You appear to have an objective approach to things rather than writing based on emotion (you've said words are hard and I take that into account when I read your responses to things) and I have never interpreted your words as meaning anything other than the words you used. No hidden meanings or innuendos.

Tumblr loves to take an innocent post and twist it. It sucks. Take as long of a break as you need, because meltdowns suck and having to fight with people who only want to fight is a waste of time. Do what is safest for you and your health, and good luck with your writing! :)

--Cyndi butterfly